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Intimately Aligned

Part of being human is taking on the conditioning, rules, and roles of our caregivers and environment. We are taught to separate from our Essential Self (our true, authentic nature) at a young age. This is no one’s fault—it is how it works. Who we are at our core is pure, innocent, and whole.

Anything else is a lie.

Sure, you may have personality quirks and traits that are less savory. So what? You are human and might as well join the club with the rest of us. In addition to our humanity, we possess an inner God-gifted fountain of wisdom, strength, and power.

This blog speaks to navigating what it is to be human. I pray that Intimately Aligned makes you think, invites you to align with what’s right for you, and encourages you to take bold action from a new perspective. The action is what shifts your life.

The saying is pray AND move your feet. 😉

Pause and notice what’s going on inside your body. How’s your breath? Your heart rate? What other physical sensations are you noticing? Breathe and be with them. Keep breathing with them.

Whether this mini-practice irritates or resonates with you, I pray you find what is True for you. I trust in your path and journey. Do you?

Either way, I’ll be here devoted to God, sharing what is mine to speak to. I’m committed to BEing a conduit of fierce Love and support for every human I encounter who is open to that exchange. 

Cheers to being human in these times,
Judy

2021, you were a bitch, yet…

I wrote this on 01/01/2022. I trust that this timing, aligned with the beautiful Spring energy, will support those who need this message most.

2021 was an intense, internal, different year over here.

In the Spring of 2021, after feeling the call for several months, I listened and just stopped. I stopped listening to anyone/anything else except my internal guidance. I relaxed and just started being how I was, where I was, moment to moment, regardless of how the mind wanted it to be. I leaned into the inquiries:

  • When my life is not about this goal or achievement, who am I?
  • Can I be where I am now and feel fulfilled?
  • How much money do I really require to live a life I call successful?

I let go of all my ideas of what it looked like to have what I wanted. I stopped chasing life, money, clients, outcomes and told God:

“I’m ready. I’m listening. Pursue me. Open me, and show me what you want for me. Let life come and ravage me how it wants because what I’m doing isn’t working and I’m over it.”


What followed next was wholly unexpected. The list below illustrates just some of the themes that ravaged me for the year:

  • ego, identity, personality
  • suicide, death
  • family, home
  • cancer, illness, disease
  • love, marriage, partnership
  • time, physical reality, spiritual reality
  • money, success, integrity, values, wealth
  • unity consciousness, community, support

2021’s Wisdom Crash course?

Life keeps coming, and it’s not always a dream that feels good, flowy, warm, or creative. Life can be ruthless, brutal even. Indeed, some things are out of our control, will make zero sense, and will rock our worlds. Doesn’t matter the fuck-ton of spiritual practices and personal development one has done. Life gives every one of us multiple servings of shit sandwiches. No one is exempt; this is the human experience.

Trying to ignore and create on top of this is shaky ground. The foundation of anything is the one thing that matters. Time, death, and reality are ultimate, universal, and complex. These topics consist of fibers and layers woven across multiple concurrent timelines. There will be instances when no answer, explanation, or solution will feel good enough to soothe the human psyche – unless it’s rooted in God.

It is all God.


God is in motion, in everything ALWAYS. Personally, this is a solid foundation I have tested repeatedly. I tried to make this untrue. The results are undeniable: I have superpowers available at my disposal when God/my God-self is the foundation.

In mid-late December, I felt my way through layers and timelines of immense grief and fear of potentially losing a beloved family member. In that vulnerable, surrendered space, it all clicked:
~I am a woman who feels everything intensely, and I get to let it all come through me, keeping my heart, mind, body, and soul wide open to be ravaged by it all.
~I get to keep choosing me WHILE the shit sandwich is bestowed upon me.
~I don’t have to shut off, down, run, or stop moving towards what lights me up.
~I say who I am and if I wish to expand to hold it all, or if I wish to contract.

I’m ready for whatever life wants to give me and keep my heart open through it all. I know there will be times when the pain feels so intense my mind will ask me to shut down and run. My heart has been cracked open to new depths. Beliefs I carry about a lot of shit that just doesn’t fucking matter have been exposed and are lovingly being worked through. I’m here for it all because It Is All God.

2021 you were a bitch, yet you invited and held me as I answered the call to leap from girl to woman.
From the depths of my soul across all timelines: I honor you. I thank you. I love you, and I release you.

When Fear Arises: Inviting Your Emotions In Instead of Pushing Them Away

When life is being lifey and threatens to take away something or someone you love fiercely it’s normal to feel anxiety and fear take up shop in your body. This *energy* is intense!

Perhaps you:
~curse it
~ignore it
~overanalyze it
~spew your energy onto anyone/anything else so you don’t have to be with it (ask me how I know 😂)

This causes distortion in your energetic field. You’re asking the anxiety and fear to be something it’s not. You’re asking yourself to be in a state you are not.

When you fear losing someone (or something) you love, the energy swirling in your body/energetic field needs permission to be exactly as it is in the moment.

After hundreds of sessions with clients (and thousands of sessions with myself), I’ve learned: *uncomfortable energy* is an opportunity to nurture the scared parts of self.

When the energy is tended to and acknowledged it has options.
It may:
~intensify for a short bit
~disappear altogether
~transform into something else
~pull up a chair and hang with you longer than you’d like
~deliver clear guidance
~something else entirely because I don’t have ALL the answers 😂

Invitations are ever-present in the human experience. When uncomfortable emotions come knocking, who will you be?

🤔Will you sit with this energy, breathe, and invite it in so it could offer something profound for you now?


🤔Will you contract, close, and shun the energy, thus re-activating the cycle of suppression and re-emergence at a later date?


Either way is doable.
Which timeline do you choose?
💞

God’s Perfect Timing: Waking Up to the Magic of It All

As life calls me to wake up from my (almost) year of retreat, I’m tuning back into my goals, dreams, and navigating life from a new, solid foundation.

I’m present to the gift of the insanely loving and generous nature of God.

Creator I lined up exactly what I needed months before I even knew I would need support for the exact time I needed it, which is also my birthday week. 😆

Divine Intelligence blows me away and makes me giggle.

I’m in awe and feel comforted by All That Is.

I’m receiving what God always knew I needed and allowing myself to accept provision. Everything aligns in natural coherence and flow with His plan.

Grateful AF!

From ‘Too Much’ to Just Right: How I Became an Energetic Match for Love

A few nights ago, right cheek smooshed against his muscular chest, arms around his waist, I heard it: “I like that you’re so low maintenance.”

“Say more.”

“It’s so easy to be with you. You appreciate the small things. You say I’ve given so much, & I feel like I haven’t given much. It’s easy to make you happy.”

Tears lined my eyes. I thought – this is what I’ve always wanted to hear. He gets me. I’ve always felt this way about myself. 

“Thank you for seeing me. That hasn’t always been the case,” I said as I squeezed him tight.

I relaxed more deeply into his presence, feeling cherished, witnessed, honored.

This was 𝖓𝖊𝖛𝖊𝖗 the case in the past. “Too much. Intense. What’s wrong with you? I can’t make you happy. Why you trippin’?” was the norm from men I’ve dated.

𝙄𝙣 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙮, 𝙄 𝙬𝙖𝙨 𝙨𝙞𝙢𝙥𝙡𝙮 𝙪𝙣𝙨𝙠𝙞𝙡𝙡𝙚𝙙:
~ I berated myself; therefore, I received the same energy from my dates.

~I didn’t understand how to vet a man. I chose insecure men who came on hard and fast, then chose them in a rush because they were right in front of me. 

~I didn’t get how to care for my own emotions and heart, so I met men who were also inexperienced in handling my heart with care.

~I didn’t know how to communicate my feelings and desires in a way a man could hear. I dated men who matched my inability to be vulnerable.

When I did begin trusting myself, I still met all types of men. I heard all the things I used to hear.

The only difference? I now stood on solid ground, recognizing flags, knowing when to walk because I was clear and consistent in myself and my destination.  

𝙈𝙮 𝙙𝙚𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙 𝙢𝙮 𝙘𝙝𝙤𝙞𝙘𝙚𝙨.
Emotional attachments were secondary. I 𝖈𝖊𝖆𝖘𝖊𝖉 𝖇𝖊𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝖆 𝖛𝖎𝖇𝖗𝖆𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓𝖆𝖑 𝖒𝖆𝖙𝖈𝖍 with the insecure, abusive, lost types.

My man reflects how fiercely I chose to and continue to choose to love myself in all my mess.

This is dynamic – never set in stone.  The minute I put everything on him & stop caring deeply for myself, he will FEEL it, and our polarities will shift. He instinctively is less adoring because he unconsciously senses
my attempts to siphon energy from him…

Our romantic relationships are sacred. Each and every one of them is reflecting an aspect of your relationship with you.  You’re receiving your energetic match, regardless of your thoughts and emotions on it. 

When you’re looking for a ready NOW partner, you’re looking for a certain caliber of human. 

𝙔𝙤𝙪’𝙫𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙩𝙩𝙖 𝙗𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙚𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙘𝙝 𝙢𝙤𝙨𝙩 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚 to line up with your person.

Look at your love life now. What is the one big thing your date/partner is reflecting back to you? Emoji 💩 if you dislike and 🥳 if you are excited with the reflection. Brave souls with the 💩 emoji –  share more deets for free coaching in the comments. Take advantage…I rarely offer free advice, like I rarely share my food. 😂