๐งฒ Love is a powerful vibration that draws in exactly what youโre focused on.
Re-calibrate to Love, no matter what.
PSA: This does not mean you take shit and stay in an abusive/toxic situation.
๐งฒ Choose to Love YOU first and ๐ ข๐ ๐ ๐ ฆ the Universe you are only available to be matched at the delicious frequency of being ๐๐๐ก๐๐๐ง๐๐ฉ๐๐ ๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐๐๐ง๐๐จ๐๐๐.
Short answer: ๐ Stop ๐Lying ๐To ๐Yoโself!
Loves, lying to yourself- even with the tiniest things will screw you over. When youโre flip-floppy and mal-aligned with yourself, youโll misread vital intuitive hits. And youโll confuse TF outta the laws that are trying to deliver to you your ๐ฆ How do I know? Iโve lived like this most of my life! ๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธBelow find:ย Actual thingsย Iโve said/experienced.ย Theย ๐ฅ๐ข๐ I told myself.ย What wasย ๐ซ๐๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐จ๐ง,ย &ย ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ญ ๐ก๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐ง๐๐.ย
๐ฉ โBoy, you like to drink a lot!โ ๐๐ข๐:ย Oh, itโs nothing. I like to party too! This is normal for our age. ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ:ย I rationalized flags on date 2 because he was hot, charming, & interested ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ: Tumultuous 5-year relationship with an alcoholic who cheated on and left me.ย
๐ฉ *He grabbed my hand from across the table. I recoiled immediately + pulled my entire arm back.* ๐๐ข๐:ย Maybe Iโm being too sensitive. Heโs got that masculine energy I love! ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ:ย I didnโt understand my body wisdom + language. It was telling me this guy was not safe for me. ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ:ย Survived verbal + emotional abuse most days for 10 months. Oh, and he dumped me by text.ย
๐ฉย โTo be honest, itโs moving a little fast for me.โ ๐๐ข๐:ย This is all I ever wanted. It scary, but isnโt any new relationship? Stop second-guessing, + enjoy this! ๐๐๐๐ฅ๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ:ย I ignored the call for SLOW. ๐๐๐ฌ๐ฎ๐ฅ๐ญ: 2 months in, he did a 180. I asked about where he was with us. He ghosted.ย
You know the drill, too: You see, hear, feel, EXPERIENCE a thing. It feels off, + you discount it. Right there, at the point of choice is where you have the power to shift whatโs next in your reality.ย
Itโs time to practice radical honesty. Especially if you are concerned with wasting your time. Thatโs it. Stick with trusting yourself no matter what your brain + feelings holler.
Your intuition does not yell. The faster you say no thank you to potential, the faster you meet the one who is aligned with celebrating and loving the fuck out of you NOW.
I donโt care which camp youโre in Today is a new day Nothing shifts overnight Not the challenges in your relationship Not the challenges in our country May we lean into possibilities May we lean into faith May we lean into collaboration There are no Saviors except The One who looks back at you in the mirror
May you know your inherent power to create May you be reminded of + supported in who you are when you forget May you rest in acceptance of where you are today + every day
I donโt care which camp youโre in Today is a new day
